r/dreamgender was both a subreddit and Discord server that was centered around worshipping and stanning the popular Minecraft YouTuber Dream. Many of its users identified themselves as "dreamgender" or "dreamsexual", which refers to the sexual orientation that regards the attraction, admiration, and identification towards Dream, as described by the Know Your Meme's page explaining what the two terms mean. Although many people could not tell if their users were just joking about being overly obsessed with Dream or were dead serious about it, the entire thing would end up being satire. Both the subreddit and Discord server are not associated with the people who started dreamgender/dreamsexual as a thing on Twitter, since the owners just wanted to make their own group for themselves. The Discord server ended up getting nuked on December 6th, 2021, and the subreddit was banned on February 12th, 2022 for promoting hate speech.

r/dreamgender (subreddit)
"a subreddit for dream, dreamsmp, dreamgenders and dreamsexuals"
Status Banned
Subscribers6,700+
OwnerJupiter (zokti), flvmpt0, and u/viche1
FoundedJanuary 28th, 2021
DefunctFebruary 12th, 2022
FounderJupiter (zokti) and flvmpt0
Linkhttps://www.reddit.com/r/dreamgender/


Important Information

Many people were confused with the terms about the sexual orientation towards Dream, so u/viche1 decided to make an entire channel on the Discord server explaining what the terms mean.

Dreamgender/Dreamsexual

Dreamgender is the love for Dream and his content or Dream SMP (the series, not his members) to a point where it becomes your gender and a part of your identity, whereas Dreamsexual is being sexually attracted to Dream himself and his content.

Dreamphobe

A dreamphobe is somebody that dislikes Dream and his community, where they tend to discriminate fellow dreamgenders and dreamsexuals for being who they are as a person. Some names they would commonly go by are "nazi", "snowflake", "scum", etc.


More information can be found on a Know Your Meme page explaining the sexualities in a more accurate way, which can be found here.

r/dreamgender (discord server)
 
"a discord server for dreamgenders, dreamsexuals, dream fans and allies to hang out!"
Server info
Status Nuked
Users2,000+
Owneru/viche1 and Jupiter (zokti)
History
FoundedMarch 15th, 2021
DefunctDecember 6th, 2021
Founderu/viche1

Subreddit

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The r/dreamgender subreddit provided a safe-space for people who resonated with the sexuality and gender to share their own experiences and thoughts about Dream. Most posts would be about copypastas made by people who were obsessed with Dream, calling out "dreamphobes.", people who could not sense satire and "dreamphobes" who were trying to get the subreddit taken down. Although the subreddit would eventually be banned and many posts are lost, many archives of the subreddit were made using the Wayback Machine website with 31 submissions, which is plenty to work with.

Subreddit Basics

Rules

As shown in a pinned post that was made by the founder, Jupiter, the rules for the subreddit were pretty simple for most people to follow, which are as listed:

  • Must either be an ally to dreamgenders and dreamsexuals, be dreamgender or dreamsexual yourself.
  • Do not be racist, homophobic, transphobic, xenophobic, ableist, ageist, classist, misogynistic, anti-semitic, or islamophobic.
  • Try to keep political discussion to a minimum.
  • Must be dreamgender, dreamsexual, or a dreamsexual/dreamgender ally.
  • Be nice.
  • Flair NSFW and spoilers.
  • Love Dream.
  • Make sure you're flaired, and make sure to flair your posts.
  • Posts must be related to Dream SMP, Dream, dreamsexuality, dreamgenderism, or Minecraft.
  • Have fun!!!!

r/dreamgender Gets Banned

During early 2022, the subreddit would eventually get banned by Reddit for violating Reddit's rule against promoting hate. It is believed that the subreddit was taken down possibly due to the fact that being a dreamsexual/dreamgender is considered offensive to the LGBTQ+ community or either because Dream himself didn't like people making a whole sexuality and gender out of him, as he stated in a deleted tweet.

Discord Server

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Server Basics

Rules

  • Hate speech against Dream, dreamgenderism, members of the Discord (dreamphobes or dreamgenders) is prohibited.
  • Posting NSFW content is strictly prohibited.
  • Not "flooding" the server with messages or copypastas, this is probably going to get you muted.
  • Must either be an ally to dreamgenders and dreamsexuals, be dreamgender or dreamsexual yourself, dreamphobes are going to get dreamphobised.
  • Love Dream.
  • Posts must be related to Dream SMP, Dream, dreamsexuality, dreamgenderism, or Minecraft.
  • If you're dreamgender or a dreamphobe, you are not allowed to attack others "extremely". If you send death threats or attack someone, you will end up getting muted or banned.
  • If you have @everyone perms, don't abuse them
  • No FNF fans allowed
  • All sexualities/genders listed will be considered "nazism" if identified within the server or at all: valorantsexual/valorantgender, genshinimpactsexual/genshinimpactgender, tommyinnitsexual/tommyinnitgender.
  • No pedophiles, even if you're "joking"

Choosing a side

In order for someone to talk in the server, they must first be verified by choosing which side they stand by. A user will be granted 2 options, which are roles called "fellow dreamgender/ally" or "dreamphobe snowflake". If the user chooses the "fellow dreamgender/ally" role, they will be granted full access to the server. However, if the user chooses "dreamphobe snowflake", then they will be locked to only one channel where they can only talk to other dreamphobes. If a dreamphobe was caught being "funny" by selecting the dreamgender role instead of the dreamphobe one, they would either get the role removed or even possibly be banned.

References

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